Having said that, I do know of a sitch when the H is a very, VERY high flying professional who seemed the perfect guy. Extremely attractive, charming, has money to burn, looks like a perfectly toned and fit 30's guy when he is in his 50's.
So Mr. Perfect walks away from W and 4 kids. I hear he spends time with his extremely hot 20-something bf now living the high life.
It's different I know . But this is one instance when gay marriage / relationships might just about influence a straight one.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.