Trying to move on

[ClingingToHope]

It was my night. She wanted D10 to call her before 7 p.m. She wasn't asking for them. It's pretty set, unfortunately, down the road that may hurt me because we haven't set a 50/50 agreement and she can argue that there's no reason to change what is already working.

I'll argue that when I moved out, I moved in with a friend and couldn't keep them. Then when I got an apartment, we set up the current arrangement. I've since asked for an additional night a week -- Thursdays -- and that would be a 50/50 agreement.

She said no on Thursdays basically because she doesn't want to go five straight days without seeing them. In my case, I see them every day after school so I only go two days without seeing them at any time.

My argument to the court will be that I never intended not to have joint custody, it just took me time to get the proper setup.