When he is walking from room to room talking about the division of property, just get up and go into another part of the house. You do not need to subject yourself to this crazy making bs. For one thing, nothing is final until some papers are drawn up and the division of property is then specifically stated in them. If you need to change the locks, you will need to find out if you can do it now or after he receives separation papers. In my state, his personal belonings had to be out of the house and my xh had to have draft separation papers in hand before I could change the locks.
Yes, this walking from room to room thought is just BS. He is absolutely NOT the man I met, fell in love with, or married. It's like he is an alien.
Originally Posted By: snodderly
You have to understand....nothing you say or do is going to be okay right now. Why? He's an emotional wreck and his depression is driving the anger. You could say that the goose laid a golden egg and he would tell you it's glass. He will not agree w/you on anything. If you must speak to him, talk to him about safe subjects, like the weather or if you have children what they are doing....do not buy into his bs about your relationship or divorce. The less you broach those subjects, the better.
I will try, but he does not make it easy. I just need to begin telling myself that is is him and not me....
Originally Posted By: snodderly
Can you have someone at the house when he comes by to the get "certified mail"?
Not really. I didn't want to be here. I may just work late tomorrow and check the house when I get home....
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
