Trusting, My xh walked out in December 1999 and I've been divorced since June 2002. After he walked out the second time in December 1999, I pegged him as being one of those that will remain stuck for the rest of his life.
Yes, he continues to lie to this very day and every email is about him, how sick he is, etc. Yet, I can do a google search on him and there he is....all over the net talking about what he's doing, concerts, races, baseball and football games that he has or is attending. The man is just stuck and is in a holding pattern.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
