Thank you for those insights, they are so revealing and reflective of all the damage they have done.
Snodderly, I can't believe your ex is still lying and acting so poorly. How many years has it been? He must be one of those who never gets out of the crisis? Is that your interpretation?
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11