Thought I was done

[flowmom]

(((Bill))).

What you're going through with your W reminds my of one of my son's stages when he was a toddler. Whenever he hurt himself he would look around, find the nearest person, and direct all of his outrage at them as if the innocent bystander had hurt him.

We need to avoid being the innocent bystander so that the WAS can be alone with her pain and deal with it. IMO you need to cut yourself off from calling her. Send one brief, business-like email or text if necessary.

I'm glad to hear that you're finding a more peaceful place in this.