1. H greets me with a relaxed expression on his face
how I will nudge this: set up a child hand-off at coffee shop or park instead of at home (lot of negative associations for H at home)
2. H smiles at me
how I will nudge this: 2 kids + 2 cans of shaving cream
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
