V1olin's new life without wife

[v1olin]

W called a couple hours ago... and I answered it this time before going to voicemail. She called to tell me that her car is broken. It wont start and she wont be able to go to the divorce support group for children that we go to tomorrow night. She also said that she has work that she has to do anyways tomorrow. I am going to pick d8 up and take her to the support group myself.


I could not muster any feelings of empathy for her and that is so sad to me. I loved this woman so strongly for 18 years and now all I can say to her is "good luck with your car"



Our divorce is still not final and the question is: did I do enough? Did I try long enough? Should I hang on until it is final before I call this woman whose number I just got last night? any advise?