Ack... I get it.. I get it.. He's an angry man and lashes out. Thanks for the perspective of "putting that part of his life behind him".
And I guess feeling like I was doing a 'noble' thing, i.e., providing background so he'd understand what the kids were going through was unneeded.
And I did reread the letter. It's something appropriate for a friend, not a contentious former spouse. Oops.
I asked my daughter what was up with her dad, as far as seeing each other. "We've both been really busy." was her reply. I can count on one hand how many times they've seen each other since July. The last visit was breakfast at a diner with all the kids close to where he lives. Part of me wants to point out that she has only one dad. The other part says hush and listen. Right now I'm hushing.
GET THIS CRAP BEHIND YOU, Kathleen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
