I think I'd rather be dead than this- WAW

[crushed_v95]

if you wait around for her to apologize you'll be waiting for ever. my wife has been banging other men since before we were married. She apologized the first time. My acceptance of her apology and my naïve belief that she had "learned her lesson" was taken as permission to do it constantly thereafter.

there is something to be said for working on yourself. in one month i've gone from a pathetic, groveling basketcase to someone who has a touch of dignity because i quit whining and begging my own unfaithful (not just sexually unfaithful, but in every other conceivable way too) wife to stay married to me.

this woman has left you. you don't need her for anything. accept that and things begin falling into place pretty rapidly.