I found your thread and have read parts of it, but it is 68 pages! So I'll just jump on here and follow along. Good to see you are a fellow bellydancer. I have been taking class for about 3 years now. That is a special treat that I give to my H on occasion. I will do a seductive bellydance for him in just the coinbelt and a headdress. I never get past about 2 minutes of dancing for some reason. I think he has a short attention span (LOL).
And I like the idea of crockpot coq au vin, I will have to try that recipe! It sounds like you are doing the right things. You are not taking the hardline and forcing the divorce. The affair could peter out and your H could decide you are the better option. Stranger things have happened! Good for you for using the telephone coaching.
