Thought I was done

[MarkG]

Glad to hear I'm not the only 1 falling back into it all, but sorry it's happening to you too. My latest issues have prevented me from moving forward, and now I'm falling backward. If you think she's at the point of wanting to R maybe it's time to lay down some "if you want this to work you have to work on yourself" and give her some ideas of what you want her to do. I think you already said you were in counseling with her, but tell her why you're becoming apprehensive and see if she doesn't 180. I wish my W was on the fence instead of over it.