Ok sounds like MrCW still isnt sure what he wants, I dont buy OW is pushing! Dont want to get you too excited but I'd say he's a man undecided still.. Some thing pushed him into a corner with the D papers and it probably wasnt you. Again with the D was cheaper than a S and a D. I'd check that out yourself but it doesnt ring true not that I'd know for certain.
Best plan of action is to step back, detach for a few days and think through what he said, although it was good you were able to say you'd have preferred his support with S nothing wrong with that.
If anything the fact you accepted it was all done and dusted can only do you good, you dropped the rope and that can only be a good thing.
Keep you head held high hun you did good today even if you feel you didnt (())
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