NM-yes, you will be frustrated at times but I truly don't "feel" it in most of your posts!

WN

"So do you think sending a mixed message of need vs not is a good thing? A lot of the DBing just doesn't seem to fit when there is an OW/affair involved."

I have been wondering about that myself!

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing