Question: As you withdraw, do you fear him thinking "she's ok now, doesn't need me, seems fine without me, so I can cut the final thread"?
YES!!!! So that's why I want to keep contact during his day off.
The withdrawal is just "something different" that I need to try sometimes, don't you think? Also I need it when I am feeling especially heartbroken and/or pissed off!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
