Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

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I would like to refer to it as "cupcake eating!"
He gets to be in his house, see me. That is about it. I talk to him and see him way less than before. I mean he gets to see his baby but that isn't cake eating! :-)

I think you are doing great! Marriage Builders would call it a great Plan A, and Dr. Bob would call it a great job of Leaping your Partner. However, even with GALing, I am sitting in a hole waiting for the last shovel of dirt to bury me. Can't dig out until H makes a move. Your way is much more fun!

Question: As you withdraw, do you fear him thinking "she's ok now, doesn't need me, seems fine without me, so I can cut the final thread"?