WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

Worst case scenario ... your wife divorces you and marries the OM. Then your kids will be living in the same house with him part of the time.

I hope that doesn't happen either, but it COULD, and there's not a damn thing you can do about it, beyond making yourself crazy AND look crazy.

By which I mean .... let it go, Indiana. You can use this to gauge her sincerity and make your choices accordingly; that's about it. Assuming you're even sure of your facts; was there any face-to-face interaction at all? If you don't know, *definitely* let it go. I can understand why even the thought of your wife and your kids and OM in the same venue would piss you off .... it would me too .... but is this the hill you want to die on???

Thanks Kettricken - good to see you in my thread again.

I like the Indiana Jones reference - got that right away.

I agree it would make me look like a psycho if I tried to get an RO. While I'm sure the circle of ex-work friends of my W know all about the EA, the OM is not a criminal and has a rep of being a nice guy, good with kids, blah blah blah. Me putting an RO on him because my wife brought my kids around him would make me look pretty foolish, I think.

Plus it would be a misuse of the principle of the RO.