Crushed, as you mentioned in response to one of my messages, we have so much in common. I ended up with my wife because of low self-confidence (married her despite seeing warning signs and choosing to move on to someone with fewer significant problems that could affect the marriage), and she has tried to overrule me in so many ways during the course of our marriage. What I had hoped would be a good marriage has become a miserable time.
I, too, have made the decision (unpopular based on replies to my messages on these forums) to divorce. Cannot continue to be a doormat for this woman.
Know that you have my emotional support, for what it is worth.
