Hey, at least with him in the house he will notice your DBing efforts. It is nearly impossible to detach when you are seeing him though. It is hard. Post here often!!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
H called this morning to say that he is not moving back in.. I am in unbelievable pain. I have been crying uncontrollablly for the last few hours. I have no one to talk to...everyong I called goes to voice mail. H wants a D plain and simple. He can't stand being around me...I feel worthless....How can he do this?''
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
DU - please find me on the alt (FB) and I'll pass along my contact info so that we can speak. I understand the pain that you may be in right now. I do I really do. I am eric sant2 on the alt.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Hopefully, I am not confusing anyone by posting on this thread. It is now 4:45 am and I am still awake.
I am thinking about a lot and wanted to just write it down. Today is the day my baby sister would have been 30 years old had she lived. I miss her.
The days are hard and the nights are soooo very long. Sometimes I don't think I will make it. I continue to try and keep going, but i just have a lot of thoughts today.
Have a good one everyone.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
My H left me about 2.5 years ago. In the midst of the grieving over that loss, I lost my brother almost a year ago. We were very close.
It is unbelievably painful when you are going through this, but culiminated with having to deal with the death of a loved one, or an anniversary of their death, their birthday, can bring you down very low. Today, on the birthday of your sister, I want you to think of her and remember the good things that she brought to this world.
(((Hugs)))
PS you can find me in the alt too...christine blitzer lebensieg
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Thank you Lola. I too wish you good memories of your brother.
I am on the alt as well. Rachel Brooks.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
Hope may be a little overrated... No expectations rights?
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
