You most likely will not find the answer as to why he's angry now. They get angry at every little thing that doesn't go their way or people don't agree w/them on something. Sometimes they just get up angry at the entire world you just happen to be in his line of fire at the time. Please do not try to over analyze his anger or behavior.....step away from it, accept the fact that whatever created such a stir in him may change tomorrow.
As for your marriage being over, no one knows that for sure. If the divorce should happen, there's always the possibility that years from now, you two could reconcile, but if that were to happen, ultimately it could be your decision as to whether you want to reconcile or not. I know that you feel like you've lost, but it's not over until the fat lady sings.
You've come a long way and have learned a lot about yourself. What you have learned will help you in the long run. Do not doubt yourself, for you are a strong, confident and wise lady.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
