I am sure those who are "anti bo peep" stay far away from my thread! :-) Pretty sure Allen is one of them!
LRT in my case will result in Divorce. I am 99% sure. So that is why unless or until I want a divorce I just won't risk it!
But when there are barriers in a relationship that include one partner who hasn't divorced yet and is staying in contact with their spouse, as well as their child, that just can't make for a harmonious relationship! Maybe a lot of S&M in the bedroom, barf!
You are doing fine as you are! If I could do it, I would.
I tried for 6 months, but I would fall into despair and hurt as I watched H do his balancing act. Finally, he said he thought he could keep everyone happy by him living at home, and whoring in the afternoon! I think it is called cake-eating. I do not know what he wants now or hopes to accomplish by living in the sleazy motel with her AND wanting his marriage, life and family. He has resisted legal steps so far. Maybe when his attachment to me wears off???
The 50 million dollar ?. Do you maintain contact and risk cake-eating or go dark and hope to trigger attachment needs and risk detachment?
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
