We can analyze this forever, but are wasting time. HERE is what this is all about...
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I did a little internet searching and found out that a female business colleague he had pursued, unsuccessfully, 10 years ago was at the event. When H and I were just pals, he had told me how he had been obsessed with her and pursued her for a couple of years until she finally had to tell him, "look I really like you as a friend but that's all." It wasn't until she got a steady BF that he gave up.
You didn't LISTEN to him. He even told you this was the woman that tripped his trigger. There is nothing else to analyze. He wants her and never stopped wanting her. I would think that maybe you don't want to admit that because it would hurt your feelings. I believe it is the truth of this whole mess. There is nothing you can do if he feels this way about her EXCEPT to let him see that you WANT him out of your life. The only way he may come back to you is if he can't have her, but DO you want that? If so, then hang in there.
You are overanalyzing this. This is about the woman he was and may still be obsessed with.
Hello? Industry reports does not mean he is sleeping with her. Where is the proof necessary to lay down a gauntlet?
I could very well be insane here, but what changed between the two of you BEFORE he went to Europe?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
