Oh, course I don't want to be married to someone who cancels vacations because he became obssessed with someone else. That's not the man I married. Isn't something similar true for many people here? They do want their spouse, but not if their spouse is going to keep screwing someone else?
The man I married was my favorite person to talk to, and I was his. We had lots of fun together. We had passionate, frequent sex. He is very intelligent, interesting, knowledgeable. He makes me laugh a lot. We have a lot in common in many ways. That's the guy I married.
But he began to treat me differently as soon as we married. I don't know exactly what that is about. I do think that his renewed obsession with the unattainable woman may be a clue. Did he lose interest because he 'caught me"? Based on some things I said, Gucci seemed to think my H really goes for the hard to get woman, and suggested I give him that challenge in a big way.
Dudess, other than industry reports of them working together and past history, what proof do you have that this is all about the OW or that she even is an OW?
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
