I agree with everyone else's advice about BIL and PIL
(parents in law)

Here is a good phrase to use when you don't want to talk about your R with people: "I appreciate your concern but I would rather not talk about it right now. Thank you for caring though!"

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004