Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Lotus said this:

Love is a verb, it requires loving actions. The more you do loving actions for the person you choose to love, the easier it is to feel the love.

I have heard this before...so it means I should be letting my WH do acts of service for me?

The thing is I could not just pick a guy off the street and choose to love him. So that is why "the choice" to love is kind of baffling.I think there are some other components involved. BUT the committment to loving someone is something I can totally buy~!