Those of you who were in a similar situation as me and reconciled with their W....how did you do it? While my W's behavior hasn't been exemplary the last 2-3 weeks, she has been showing (what I think to be) geniune remorse. Today she point blank told me she has royally screwed up her life, mine and our kids and wants to come home. I again told her I wasn't interested.
I truly want what is best for my kids. I just don't know if I could live with myself if I attempt to reconcile though. I'm not talking about pride either, I've kicked that to the curb awhile back. Some say love is a choice. Right now, no matter how hard I try, I can't choose love.
Any suggestions, ideas, etc???
One step at a time. Just do the next right thing. Be kind. Perhaps she'll prove herself. Just spend a 'little' time with her. Just talk, not fight. Go for coffee.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
