First meeting w/ WAW, I'm shaky need encouragement

[The Wifey]

You did well SweetCyborg for your first meetup. I'm glad you didn't give her an answer on the living arrangements. That answer would be, "I've decided against it." No explanations needed. She can always visit the cat.

As far as her parents, no campaign. You are friendly, polite, but the issues are between your W and you. Remember, that these are HER parents. Even if they love you to death they want her to be happy. Never say anything other than that you love their daughter and don't want the D. That's it. And never ANY personal details. They will get back to her and it will not be good.