Well done on the first meetup its always hard going getting that first one over and done with!

Right firstly get reading all of the threads on here in particular search for some of Robx's.. The first thing the fella's on here would tell you is YOU DONT MOVE OUT.. its her sh*t let her deal with it, she misses the cat she knows where it lives etc. That cat will be your greatest ally lol! Ok it might seem hard but believe me she wants a man not a mat to walk over.

See if you can get a copy of DR its the up to date version of DB and read it and reread it a couple of times, the other one to get is 5 Love Languages that will come in useful later.

Not a bad thing to drop in NY, but dont push it again unless you really mean to go through with it. DB her parents is good but just keep friendly with them until you get a good idea of what DB'ing is.. Will dig around and find the do's and donts list for you in a tick!

ETA I love the user name conjures up some funny images lol"

Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 02/21/10 03:37 PM.
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