Finally getting that I can not force it - only makes it worse. The only thing I can control is ME! now if I can just remember that and keep my mouth shut about certain things.

Had a great night out with friends lastnight. GAL really works - woke up this morning and my first thought was not my H! H was the second thought. One of my best friends told me I had a "GLOW" lastnight - WOW I have not heard that in years. maybe I am doing better than I thought.

Thank you for the advise and if H finds that OW is his best option - his choice..out of my control.

LNG
Me - 37
H - 42
S - 19
D - 16
D - 14
M - 20 years
S - 1/11/2010
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