You have had a lot of positives recently and your h is inching his way home. If he takes two steps back, he will regroup, just like a toddler learning to walk, i.e., stumbles and falls, they will get up and try again.
You have nothing to fear but fear itself. When you fear something, others tend to feel the tension and may respond differently. I understand your thoughts about things going backwards, but there are going to be times when they do until he's completely finished his crisis. From what you've posted, I do not see you going backwards unless you get sucked back into his drama if he stumbles. If he stumbles, step back and allow him the time he needs to regroup.
You have come a long way. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
