WAW Using God II

[pigskin]

I am seething right now, but I'll get over it. I'm looking for input/advice on dealing with a situation that I have repeatedly told my wife to avoid.

She took the kids to a charity event where some of her old work friends were. Including the OM. That pretty much proves to me that she is no longer making an effort to avoid contact. Fine. We're separated, and I have no control over her actions.

However I have told her time and again that I don't want my kids within 1000 yards of this man. I no longer let her take our kids to her church in addition to them going with me to mass because the OM is at her church.

I don't really have any leverage here, and it is frustrating me. Legally I don't think I can do anything about her bringing our kids into contact with the OM. I don't think she does anything to display anything more than a friendship with him in front of the kids (I'd be shocked if she hugged him or did anything more in front of them. The oldest would definitely be taken aback), but it infuriates me. I can handle her being in contact with him. I cannot deal with my kids being exposed to that evil.

Any suggestions?