What's going to happen if she has emotional problems. What's going to happen when you have one set of rules and your W contradicts them? What's going to happen when she has female issues and tells your W, but because your W doesn't get along with you, she doesn't tell you?
That is already happening. I put D3 to bed every night she's with me at around 8PM and she wakes up around 8:30AM. When she's with my ex it's all about fun and games and she goes to bed anywhere between 9PM to 1AM, and gets up anywhere between 6AM and 9AM...and when she comes back to me, she's exhausted and falls asleep in her food or during a movie that I've taken her to see.
As far as the emotional problems or female problems, my D will always know she's free to come talk to me about such things but if she chooses to talk to my ex about them over me and my ex doesnt tell me I dont know if theres much I can do.
And if my ex succeeds in getting full or primary custody, I probably wouldnt see my D enough for her to feel comfortable telling me about any of those things either. Thats why it's important to make sure that doesnt happen.
And as far as your last statement, are you suggesting I do try to talk to my ex about dropping the suit?
