G, Give yourself some time to heal from the break up of our marriage. The void you are trying to fill cannot be filled until you have healed and are content w/yourself. No one can make you happy, but yourself. I do believe you realize this and are most likely looking for company along the way.
As for your former spouse, again, the divorce is so very new and right now, she's on an euphoria high and it's going to take about 6-12 months for her to come down from it. Once she does, she's going to start realizing that life isn't so grand as she thought it would be. As to whether she'll want to have a relationship w/you or not, time will tell after this period of "high".
Be kind to yourself, plan some activities that will keep you busy, physically and mentally, catch up w/friends and family that you've not seen in a long time and continue to post.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
