W just told me she wants out

[Lost Rabbit]

Ok so pointing out the obvious that it takes two to work at things is gonna get you where?

I know youve been stuck in the middle for a while but youre coming over a tad defeatest, if W is picking that up perhaps she thinks your not working your half!

Who cares if she bought perfume when she was separated.. a woman can never have enough, believe me Ive got four on the go one for every mood lol!

Start thinking about little things you can do that she would appreciate, you might think that your housewifely talents are going unnoticed believe me they are not, its every womans dream to have a H who knows how the hoover, washing machine and dishwasher work.

You said you sleep alone.. How about changing her bed for her when she doesnt expect it, its lush getting into a newly made bed with fresh sheets. Putting fresh fluffy towels out in her bathroom.

Find out about her camera, what SD cards does it use, more are always useful. Cleaning kits just pop a new one by her camera bag. Search the internet for photo courses, my H has loved the one he has just been on. Start to notice things from a photographers point of view, tell her about the lovely trees you saw that she would have like to have taken photos off!

Like I said its all about knowing them! Start thinking like a man who wants to court his W, work on detaching your thoughts being buddies is where we all start a R think of it as a positive not a negative at least your not enemies anymore! It doesnt have to be tons of things, just a little thing she will ponder on and cherish even if shes not telling you that.. She came back for a reason have a bit of faith in that and get off your bu** and start working hun! Always here for ideas seeing as our H's have things in common.