Ok so he is still losing it a bit! Thats just his panic/frustration talking.. He does sound a bit like me can see the consequences of a single event right through to 2070, yet my H cant see them till the following day lol guess what we used to fall out about lol!

Good news is he is starting to deal with it, mostly because you refuse to let him speak to you disrespectfully and you walk away so he has no one to argue with.. Think it was fantastic you told him you felt attacked he does need to realise how bad he makes you feel when he misbehaves.. Neither of you want to be scared of each other but that is gonna take time for trust to build again, but it does seem to be going forward at a steady pace now which is fantastic news!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!