You might want to read the post of HeartBlessing on my sich. Your W is a year younger than mine and more than likely in a similar state. I know you are D and I am not saying anything will change but I am sure your story is not done yet. You need to give your XW space to finish her journey and make yourself the best option when she gets out of her crisis. Even if she chooses to remain D then you have made yourself a better catch for someone else.
