Yeah, I'm uncharacteristic all right. I've been called a lot of things on this forum, but it's just that I get so sick of seeing good people getting screwed over by their WAS's.
Being a cheerleader for a depressive, bi-polar, borderline, etc. is thankless, tedious, exhausting, and ultimately a waste of life. It's like trying to breathe life into a dead carcass.
Funny, though, how they can get their sh!t together long enough to bang someone other than their own spouse.....