Thanks again man, I am not looking forward to this, but it is something that must be done..
You're welcome. Hope it helps.
Journaling, It's all quite surreal. Today I was chatting with neighbor about house-selling "stuff" when she asked a minor, non-nosey question about expenses or sale proceeds or something. After my non-answer, this:
She: Well the divorce isn't final, yet, is it? Me: No. She: Well, then, that can always be addressed in the Final Agreement. Me: Yes, and I'm sure it will be.
I went back to straightening out a few things in the garage as the house was due to be shown in an hour. A full fifteen minutes later, my two unthinking responses hit me. We are divorced. As of eleven days ago. I'm either just not accustomed to the question - and answer - or, more likely, it hasn't impacted my life at all yet: I still live here alone. Still never see her. Still hardly ever hear from her, Still contributes absolutely nothing to house expenses or house-selling to do's. Status quo.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
