"This is the thing, if you CATCH her doing something, she's going to rant about her privacy and call you a spy or some such... They think they have a RIGHT to secrets so they can cheat. They DON'T. If your spouse is going to ABUSE trust to CHEAT, then they FOREGO trust altogether. A cheater has no business accusing someone who caught them of snooping... it's laughably illogical."

THIS IS SOOOO TRUE!!! Just had the same thing happen to me and I was the one feeling bad after husband's rant. this is spot on allen!!!


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo