"This is the thing, if you CATCH her doing something, she's going to rant about her privacy and call you a spy or some such... They think they have a RIGHT to secrets so they can cheat. They DON'T. If your spouse is going to ABUSE trust to CHEAT, then they FOREGO trust altogether. A cheater has no business accusing someone who caught them of snooping... it's laughably illogical."
THIS IS SOOOO TRUE!!! Just had the same thing happen to me and I was the one feeling bad after husband's rant. this is spot on allen!!!
Me: 28 H: 32 1st marriage 4 both 1 1/2 year married 2gether for 9 1S: 6months 1stepson: 2yo