I was even thinking that V Day might be too tough but that's good at least you heard the day after. I was again hoping something but nope.. haven't heard from him since around 10 days ago when he emailed me the password (yep.. that was the entire email) to the acct so I could change the phone to my name..
How long do you think no contact at all is acceptable?? I guess it is my stubborn self but come on.. how is this acceptable at all? How can some people be allowed to just throw aside any and all responsibilities with no repercussions?? No one taught me this in kindergarten! :-) I could have had a lot more fun!!
Exactly! I'm cleaning, managing the dogs, etc.. fingers crossed nothing breaks and he got an apartment - so worse..he is paying RENT each month and not paying our mortgage. And from the overdue notice I got on the car guess he can't afford ALL of his expenses (car, rent)- so who knows where the rest is going..
What is good about the whole situation is that 1)if they do repossess the car it doesn't affect me since he took it and won't let me use it at all.. :-) and 2)when/if he comes back, the whole money thing will have to change.. he accused me of being too concerned with money.. did I mention that his sister just moved back here after just walking away from their house when they couldn't afford it? Just walked away and got an apartment.. where? yep. same place where his is. She was in the building first.. My sanity has been music, wine, and running (with this whole situation, my dad is in hospice with cancer, my brother just had a tumor removed last week, and a good friend is on #12 of 14 chemo treatments). So whenever I get pissy or stressed, I think of them and realize that things can always be worse...
But... why did I giggle when you mentioned tight jeans and then the contractors were at the house immediately next.. in any way related? lol!
