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Just a bump here, nothing really new to add. Reading some others posts today and catching up. It is amazing to see so many people that are so committed to making a M work and be great and how we all wound up with people that are so not that way!

I guess what they say is true---Opposites really do attract!


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Originally Posted By: Buffet
I guess what they say is true---Opposites really do attract!
Or they attract initially but ultimately repel. whistle


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Gardener, Buffet, I love you guys.

Buffet, hang in there.

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Thanks Kimmie and as usual Gardner! Got out last night with some friends and watched the MMA fights at a local pub---not sure the draw on that one quite yet. I am a HUGE sports fan and am all about competition and pushing yourself, but that seems pretty barbaric to me even.

Looking forward to this week as it will be my last one at the current age, bump one more year Friday. I think this one feels like such a bigger deal than any other b/c of how long this year has been.....


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Looking forward to this week as it will be my last one at the current age, bump one more year Friday. I think this one feels like such a bigger deal than any other b/c of how long this year has been.....
Yep. 2009 lasted - what? - three or four years, didn't it? crazy


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Originally Posted By: Buffet
watched the MMA fights at a local pub---not sure the draw on that one quite yet. I am a HUGE sports fan and am all about competition and pushing yourself, but that seems pretty barbaric to me even.

Nah, you want barbaric, google Irish Bareknuckle Boxing.


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Shocked yeah I think that one is a bit worse! Give me a baseball/football/hockey game any day!


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well Birthday was this weekend seems like this year has been longer than all the other years combined!---Wonder why that is?

It was very weird/sad not to have W even mention my birthday. She actually got the day started off on a great note by texting me around 6:15 am and letting me know I "owe her" $$ because she went out and bought S2 some more clothes and that she needed a check ASAP. Grrrr........


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Well I think I will be moving soon. Just got word that papers are done and just need to be signed and approved by a judge and we will be divorced.

Could be done by this time next week.....I know this is best but still it hurts. This ALL did not need to happen. I will never understand why this took the course that it did. Ecspecially the last 3-4 months as it has spiraled completely out of control. I never thought this would/could happen


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I know this is best but still it hurts. This ALL did not need to happen. I will never understand why this took the course that it did. Ecspecially the last 3-4 months as it has spiraled completely out of control. I never thought this would/could happen
I'm sorry, Buffet. I know how it feels, man. Change the 3-4 months to another timeframe and those could be - and have been - my exact words and those of many here. It's an empty feeling after trying so hard...and being the only one in the M trying so hard. Or trying at all. But tried you did. A noble effort.
Endure.


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