Hi Allen A.
You might remember responding to my earlier posts about exposing my wifes affair. And no I have not done it yet. I have been trying to understand why I am so afraid to tell the OP's wife. Some info you have posted both from Dr.Phil and most helpful,"From Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass, Ph.D. © 2003 published by Free Press pp. 77-79)" I have reached the point where I almost whish at times she would just leave. My willingness to forgive has greatly diminished. I do know that seeing two seperate IC's who were adament about not exposing the affair has had me second guessing my gut reaction.....I also have read some of your posts on unqualified IC's. Thanks again