Avermont, I don't understand why you can't keep your house?? How do you KNOW H will fight you for it? Call his bluff! Maybe he thinks you will just back down when faced with his "big guns". You have as much right to it as he does - right?
Seems like something else isn't in the cards for you emotionally. I've had a blast making "our" house MY house and renovating. I've paid for a little help here and there but I've learned to do most of it on my own. The Home Depot has classes, books and people to instruct. YOU CAN DO THIS if you want to.
Don't let him bully you - if you want to stay - FIGHT for your home. I can't tell you how much its helped my PMA to not have lose my home of 7 years along with everything else.
Now that I've (almost ) finished fixing things it dosen't feel like H is "missing" at all
Fire back at H and see what happens. He may back down if he thinks you are going to fight - he's already backed down when given the opportunity to go toe to toe with you at the community theatre..... HE CLEARLY DOSEN'T HAVE THE BALLS!!!!
(((AVER)))
Hang in there....this really really sucks...
T
ME28,WAH30, M 5YRS, T 7YRS ,OW/ILYBNILY/SEP 9/09 Served with D papers 6/6/10 Current
) finished fixing things it dosen't feel like H is "missing" at all 
