Pls help--confused and fearful

[blownaway65]

(((DBD)))

You won't get any argument from this little black duck about the kids J.

For a long time I didn't think W deserved to see the kids, not after 'breaking' my family. Not that I ever discouraged them from seeing W, just didn't encourage it. Mine are older than yours so it's a bit easier for me, my kids can pretty much do what they want (within reason). They're all off ice skating today with W & OM and his kids.

Actually it's a good thing because I've got things I have to get done today and I'm actually looking fwd to a day by myself.

At the end of the day our S's are the kids parent as well, and kids are way better off with 2 parents who love then and want to spend time with them. No matter what WAS does that will never change.

In this case I think Sandi's signature line says it best. Do what works.

Also good though that you aren't seeing this as something it's not and keeping your guard up.