And now, Lotus, after reading your advice I'm not sure I should say anything at all. But it seems...wrong to just sit here day in and day out, living with him and pretending we have a happy family when he has a wh*** in another state. And I know I have the advantage since I'm here. But I don't want to see her face on his FB page, or her postings there, or her phone number on my phone bill every day. He shouldn't be allowed to just do as he pleases while I raise our sons and keep the house.
And no, I don't want a D. But I want something to change. I hate living in this holding pattern. And he is going to know I contacted her - she e-mailed him our conversation. I laughed when I saw it. Obviously if I wanted to, I could just delete it before he ever sees it. But I won't. Let them both know that reality doesn't go away and neither do I just because they want us to.
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
