OK- I decided to set up a profile on match for the heck of it. Maybe I could meet someone nice to spend some time with- worth a shot, right? Well, granted, I'm listed as separated so that cuts down interest among potential dates, I realize you do better once that "divorced" button is selected. So I get an e-mail this morning from a guy on match. OK, he seems nice enough, I give him my IM info. HOWEVER... lets keep in mind- I got myself off the swinger sites to meet "nice" guys, not horny bastards. We start chatting- He's looking for casual, "adult" company, a sex partner, what's my bra size, his d**k is 10 inches and do I do _____, _____, and _____? WTF?!?! Is there a sign on my head that says "Use me! I'm f***k-able, don't worry about anything else"??

Obviously, I'm not doing anything with this creep, he's blocked, but come on... I would like to think I'm worth more than that, it's been a hard lesson for me to learn. I'm still working on it, and those idiots don't help.


W42/H42/M20
S/19,D/17
On My Own: 11/28/09