So I have taken the advice of a friend and moved my posting over to MLC...
I will still be posting here as well cause I love you guys to much to leave.
With that said -
Can someone please explain to me what good it does to set boundaries if the other person just will not follow them?
This has been a long week that quite frankly I don't have the emotional fortitude to get into right now...
Let's just leave it at H is still batchit crazy over the fact that he was served CS papers and can't believe the nerve of me...
Now I find out from my oldest (yes again) that H isn't coming to see little one tomorrow because he is "on call" at work...
That man hasn't seen our youngest in 2 weeks and hasn't called in God knows when...
He is off today - Can he be bothered? Nope...
I am so angry at him and the way he disregards our son that if we were indeed talking I may tell him where to shove off.
I told him in writing that I will not have visitation discussed between older S and I...
That is between him and I and once again he has oldest S do his dirty work...
OK. You had to have a lawyer for CS papers. How about you ask him about what he is doing? Obviously it isn't right. Time to be a Momma Bear.
I am glad you aren't leaving here!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.