Thanks OldPilot - I see your point - I would never give up if he had cancer.
I guess I should have said - has he really moved on with OW? He is having an EA with another woman and has already moved out - OW is currently married.
LNG Me - 37 H - 42 S - 19 D - 16 D - 14 M - 20 years S - 1/11/2010 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1942142&page=1