Thank OP- I just meant that H would be here and unless I give him the silent treatment we will have to speak to each other. If we talk it will be about the kids. The way it is looking the weather will not be kind to us tomorrow so may not have to deal with him anyway.

I was kinda reading thru the MLC thread and am wondering if that is partly why my DB efforts have failed? It was said in one thread that the LRT didn't work for MLCer's. I don't know...just asking. I truly believe that H is in full MLC and then with the A on top of that...wondering now if I should even bother with asking for trying to draw out this D as long as I can? We had hoped to stall it with me claiming that I don't think that the M is beyond repair and asking that H go to counseling. I know that will really make him mad as he does not believe in counselors.

Also, should I move my thread to a different forum now?

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing