Definitely get DR and read it ASAP. As far as teaching your children that it's not OK to be treated that way...be careful. You are not going to help them by showing them your anger towards him. He is their father and if you are letting your anger creep into things, you are putting them in the middle of a conflict that is not their responsibility to deal with. As far as my children are concerned, their dad is going through a rough time, as adults sometimes do.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.